Sunday, November 18, 2007

What is Love?

What is Love?

Is it that we all belive that Love is when a sensation that magically generates when Mr and Ms Right meet?

Do you believe that we can create Love anytime? Or you believe your love came by fate and destined? So its all about sensation. Well, if its all about sensation then People actually can fall in love and then fall out of love. If it is about sensation means its based on either physically and emotionally attraction.

Have you ever thought of one day your wife turns into a fat woman? Do that still physically attract you?

What if one day your husband put so much time on his career for the family future and he has no time for affection - will this still emotionally attract you?

If it is not, you will conclude your love relationship is running out of love rite?

Some people will say 'u have to spice up your love life like being more sexy or being spicy on bed for ur hubby' n for the hubby have to learn more romantic and have sense of humor to entertain his wife.

Why don't we think love can be created by

Appreciating another's goodness in which I believe everyone of us in this earth have one goodness inside.
Focus more on a person's good can really makes you love that person more instead of focusing their physical or emotional attitudes.
Open yourself to others by giving more makes you love more and do not complains how much you have given.

Love is always a choice for everyone.....

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

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What makes me irritate him?
What makes me an annoying person for him?
What makes me immature for him?
What makes me thought is wrong for him?
What makes me seems so unprecious to him anymore?
What makes me bring no spark in between with him anymore?

Came across is another stage to go through?
Came across is a karma?
Came across is an ending point?
Came across is a change in person?
Came across is a change in attitude?
Came across is the difference between us?

A change is needed?
A go by its way?
A talk to mend it?
A tantrum to be thrown out?
A space is needed?
Or
A goodbye is needed?

Admiration 3

“To love is to admire with the heart; to admire is to love with the mind”


Today he came and he looks upset
She din know what he is upset about
He wasnt like before as he din talk much
But still he came to the spot
Thats one warm feel she get

She wish to know what is on his mind
She is too shy to ask
So they stand silently for half an hour there
Still not a word come out from both

The time just goes by the silence moment
Then all of a sudden he blurted out a sentence
"I am leaving soon, and I am unable to be here whenever you are here girl"
Her heartbeat stop for awhile and confusion got her mind

She din know what to say
In her mind was blank
And her expression can be shown with a deadly smile
And a sudden she feel like hugging him but sth is holdin her back...

He keeps on looking at her
And he is expecting something from her mouth
He waited for minutes but still there is no word from her
But just a deadly smile on her face and eye glimpsing at the open air

He can feel she is struggling some feeling
He thought is it that hard to spit it out
But then he thinks ya its hard because he himself never spit out what he felt for her
However, he still feel happy because he knew she was heavy hearted after knowing him is leaving....

Admiration 2

"The secret of happiness is to admire without desiring.” Carl Sandburg

How it started?
He saw her in a library
She saw him there that day
But they din talk
All of a sudden he came sitting beside her
She was doin some research for her work at the public library

Suddenly he says "I have always seen you here and I din know you are their friend"
She just smile to him and remain silent
He ask a lot of question and this annoyed her but she feel there is sth going on
In her mind, she do came across him everytime she is here
He do capture her vision because he is good looking
And he is always in between with those girls
She knew he is popular among them

She have a habit whenever she went to that library
She likes to go to a spot and have a peace of her mind
Slowly she realises he was there whenever she visited that spot
Since from the talking session at the library, they actually makes friend that day
Still she finds him annoying because he just love to questions her

Though he talks a lot and ask a lot but for her she loves d companion
She thinks she is flattered sometime
She thinks he have so much knowledge
She feel secured beside him
Remembering once, she got critisize by one male fren and came him stooding up for her
This click her mind thinking that - ~woman just love man~ and ~man just love mystery woman~

She is the one who talk less and this makes him think she is mystery and interesting
She is the one who have a cool face and this makes his heart pound on his chest hard everytime
Ya, slowly she finds out he actually knows her daily visit time to that library
He knew her time to be at that spot
He din really show up much in the library but at that spot he is always there
Sometimes he just like to tease her
She thinks its irritating but there is warm in her heart

Both have feeling towards each other but they remain to be 'that spot fren'
They met each other there without any contacting
Its all so natural till it seems like they can read each other mind to meet there
Again remembering once, she din went to that spot it tooks him two days to ask her why
Thats was d first time he drop her a call
She thinks its funny because they are just friend at that spot
He told her he was worried why she din show up that day
Her mind runs wildly but she never ask why he is worried
So she conclude that friend is worry about each other
But both in their heart there are more than meet the eye.....

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Admiration 1

"Between flattery and admiration there often flows a river of contempt". Minna Antrim
Do you enjoyed being admired?



He thinks she did not know he was waiting for her and he never express that he is waiting for her. Waiting at the spot she will always be is a daily routine for him and never have a thought of telling her about what he feel or how he feel towards her. The feeling of having a glance of her is just more than enough for him so he never speak a word about his feelings.



For her, it was just a coincidence whenever she went to that spot everytime. Slowly, she feel weird but she never intends to think other way round so she still thinks its a coincidence to see him there whenever she went there. She likes his companion at the spot and she thinks he is great guy and sometimes she feels so secure standing beside him. She told herself, its a friend thing but slowly comes a different thinking in her thought. She hope to see him everyday.

And she ask her friends whether she is admiring him. Her friends told her yes and encourage her to express it to him. Still, she prefer not to said it out and she thinks it is impossible as that 'he' is very good looking and a very knowledgable person but herself is just a simple girl with no specialty. So she remains silence......for those feeling and enjoy his companion whenever she goes to that spot.


He can just make her smile and laugh whenever they meet at the spot. If she is in a bad mood or upset about certain stuff, he is able to make her smile back. He loves talking to her and he always try his very best to earn a smile from her.....


Times goes by...he never stop seeing her. He knew her schedule for that spot. He have jot down the time and day of the week she will be there. And he will always be the first to reach there and of course sometimes he might be late.


Whenever he is late, her mind will run a little wild thinking what happen to him and will he show up today. And of course, he do shows up and this makes her heartbeat skip a lil faster when he shows up. This skipping of heartbeat makes her imagination run wild and its making her harder to breathe whenever they are standing too close.

Now she wonders again whether she should express her feeling.....



Admiring a person is so sweet in a way but its quite torturing in some way.