Comparing...

Y thr is comparation in tis world? everyday,every mins, every sec n every 1 is trying to compare themself with someone, compare thgs with other similar thgs, being compare by old ones amongnst ur siblings, compare tat n tis lah. Wat comparations most ppl made?? Comparation oso got stage of life eh huh!?
When we were in primary school, our parents compare our results wit d neighbours kid, our uncles n aunts kid, schoolmate at school. Wat for? we r kid n i guess its not us who wanna win o when lose we feel ashamed but our parents, our old ones. duh~ another stupidity those adults like to play with.
When we are in secondary school lor, besides the same shit we r being compare which is our academic compare by our parents but thr is slightly diff at tis stage which is we ourself tends to learn n will compare about it. But besides we OURSELF tryin to compare our academic performance with those whom our parents have been teaching us to compare with, we even try to compare looks or a more proper saying PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. Other than tat thr r some of us who will compare about their family financial background(ehem,daddy $$ u compare outside with ur fren-so silly hor?) oOps! Okay, then to a certain age like around 15 to 17 we tend to compare bout our boyfren/girlfren stuff like anythg. same shit wit looks, money, intelligence n blah blah as long thr is smethg to compare they will do it. hehe...becoming more like our old ones? stupidity? nah, or mayb comparation can bring humans to determine more n ask for more perfectism stuff in their life? hmm..duno lah~
Aft all 5 yrs comparing boys,girls,looks,rich blah blah blah it goes on again eventhough we r reaching our 20's. Ppl still do complaints n compare stuff we used to do in high school but now we r backing a bit n tat is comparing who got to go UNI or COLLEGE? n who gonna graduate faster? n is tat comparing intelligence? hehe...dunno~ other than tat we oso compare wat n how much our boyfren have given us like gifts?money? blah blah...ya..even wanna say how much is those gift? let say u got a teddy bear then thr is some fren will jz laff at u..."eee,y ur bf so cheap eh?" lame isnt it? hahaha...jz an opinion here k. Other than tat, thr r comparation bout how well ur life is than the others? Thr r ppl who oso compares their present boyfren/girlfren with their ex-bf or ex-gf which is not good wat cos they r all different ppl lah. Come on lah they come out from different h*les wat~(dodido...:X). Sometimes even good or close frens ppl still tends to compare with them. is tat a close fren? wonderringg....
Then to the stage of working, we still compare again....like k how good is ur work? your pay? mine higher? hahahaa...eh"we same uni worr,but u get a lesser pay n a bad working environment?" u c thr r so much to go on....
Till we r all married, we compares our hubby lah, wife lah, kids lah, hahhaa....tis part we have recycle back to our parents path...isnt it a karma? i mean when v r kids we dun like our parents to compare us with cousin,brothers n sista or kids from school.. n when we r in d stage of our parents we compare our kids with others ppl kid liaw. haihhh~recycle...
Sometimes I do think y have to compare? since we r all individuals with diff abilities, diff bacckground n oso diff level of intelligence. How much u compare thr isnt a good answer always but jz negative points n thoughts will phsycho ur mind n which make u feel sick n sad. sometimes it can till to d extend of hurting ur friendship n relationship. I never try to compare with any1 in my 22yrs of life but thr is only 2 thg i owes try to complains n compare which is 1stly my brother-->he is owes smarter than me n my mum likes 2 compare me with him.
2ndly my mother-->ya i do feel y i cant be very close with my mum like others girls do.
Thats it....
So, sometimes i wonder tryin to look good jz 4 others to c? i think tryin to look pleasant is enought. Comparing financial stability or being successful in d society of cos we have to compare so that we got aims or goal lah. But come on lah, who don wan to be rich. Jz work it out urself instead of wastin time tryin to say who is richer lah, who is more ability lah...haiya..:P As for intelligence i guess this is all by nature or u r born like tat then bo pien liaw...so dun force urself lah if u dunno how to do it....jz like some kids they got force to study very hard to get flying colours n in d end they spend most of their time at mental hospital or "rumah sakit jiwa". Be usual is enough as long u have done ur real best then its ok rite? dun care how or wat ppl tryin to say bout it n self try not to compare wit others tat much then u will have a happier life i guess...jz be urself:)