Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Friends byway or friends of the heart...

(friendss.....)

It's so simple to take good friends for granted and some say or most says in a sense - we should be doin it -.


Friends byway...
(Part of our life journey with a short-term length but very appreciated)
They are the one who always make you laugh whther u r hangin out with them out at the mall or attending a class or for even a drink or in the phone and in which this kind of fren jz by giving us a mere look ccould crack us up. Other than tat, u and tat fren byway of urs had a lot in common than those humors which u and him/her would have uncountable conversations at all hours of the day and night about anythg from ur favourite rock music to the signification of life and also to talked on self-fears,futures n relationships. All this means no lightweight of relationship here which this kind of frens helped each other to survive but when the journey's ended the friendship faded as well. Just like when you r in ur college time so by the time both have graduated then each walk off to their own road and time goes by the contacting of each other turns to none...
This is not a bad thing or r we having a failed friendship but just some frienships are meant to be momentary. Like cowboys who ride hard 2gether for miles sharing both dusty perils and countless night in the woods with campfire coffee and burnt birds to share. Well, we beings live a long path which leads us to have friendships that come to their natural end which is not because of unable to pair with each other but simply because of the path we has run out. Since its an end of trail together then its time to move on to other thgs or other companion...

Though its the end of this kind of friendship but we have to understand these r not a wreck ship we have build but jz a friendship of the road which we all equally share all the necessary,and treasuring each other. They r the one who get us throught a particular strectch of road which we should feel grateful and appreciate the moment of it and make it as a joyful memories.


Friends of the soul
(A true friendship has an old strength like a steel chain)
These friends-they could tell you or anyone more about myself than your siblings. They are the one who know your mood swings and your family history/background and they are the one who have watched you mount and seen you fall as well which this type of friends is so unlike with friends byway cos these guys have stayed with you beyond the road end. No matter how long the path need to be taken and miles that we have to intervene still the friendships endure.
These type of friends will never be lost in contact even we r being faraways and this r the friends whr we rendezvous at weddings and passing tru each other's town if we on a business trips, plans reunions on special days and also shared vacations trips together. They who does not weight thoughts or measure our words but to share all the ups and downs with you just like a pair of hand.
They are the one who cries and laugh with you and spend their times with you when u r in need of a shoulder to lie own and listened to ur grumbles and rantz. They are the one who pins out ur good and bad habits and till the level of accepting it but never fear of tellin you the truth cos he/she will be by ur side to go through the facts that u do not wan to be face and accept. They are the one who knows ur success and happiness in d first place and also they r d one who share their favourtie foods and drinks with you eventhough you have a cough or flu....An achieved real friendship does not matter ur ship is wrecked or make of gold cos wat they appreciate is the bonding relationship between u n him/her...

However, this 2 types of friend are both we need and none is more important the other and wht we shud matter is how to outlast a relationship.....

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Everyone will encounter both of this ship and we are very sure of the unability of wrecking neither of this 2 ships we all have in our life.
A road we are walking on indeed we can't leave an empty space besides us. They are those who give us a journey of memories and life at the moment we are enjoying with.

Every beat of our heart needs a companion to help us beat normally and comfortably. And of course they are those who do not despise,scorn or scrutinize our life yet they are those who hit us on the face when we are in the wrong path but after hitting us hard they are the one who lift us back up.

ADELINE HO said...

friends come and go but they leave footprints...

SharoOon said...

Yupe, friends come and go and leave footprints. Some footprints are jz not mean for keeping but thought of rubbing or cleaning it off from our life...:)