What do you ppl fear most? I jz realise my most fear is FAILURE! FAILURE IN WAT? thr lots of failure, like failing in ur exam, failing in a relationship, failing in a business, failing in a friendship, failing to be a good son/daughter in ur family, failing in ur working performance....so many more! n i guess every1 is fear of failure! for me FAILURE is d most dirtiest word! shiet! In 23 yrs of life, i knw i have more failure to face but all tis while I have failure in my exam, n failure to be agood friend n oso my most failure is bonding relationship with my mother! I ever think of giving up bonding it back since I have time by time failing on it! But this time I guess I have gain back a bond n tat is to confront n confess my wrongs n oso being more patience between each other. As for exams, i guess thr is no 1 to blame but ownself buut some teens do think of dying if they have too much failure in studies or relationships. But I guess confronting it n facing then try ur best to mend it will overcome more pressured feelings in ur mind.
When some1 is in a failure they try their best to escaped from it n some r pressured by it n brings us down to nervous and anxiety manner. Every1 have diff fear of a failure but being blaming urslf for not tat good or wad lah its not a good way to solve it jz like worries. So, y not face it and admit its a wrong already n it has happens already. Jz like some broken relationship, if it is broken dy n u have try ur best to heal or bond back but thr r none result shown of a turning point then its time to forget everythg n move on. Living with mistakes is not good but living away from mistakes n making ur mistakes or failure into an achievement in other part is excellent right? who never falls down? who never got hurt? every1 does..
If u urself cant cope up wit wat u have fall, try talking to some1 bout it,try imagining to overcome it with the worst situation so at least if u dun fall hard its not tat pain but if u do fall hard then at least u r ready for it,then its time to give urself a chance to stand-up again - but some ppl may think to start pushing d blame on others can give themselfs a relieved to reborn themself, its wrong for doin this cos we will get back to d circle half way tru...so y not jz take the whole failure blame n swallow it inside u n digest it out, having somthg to fall back on is oso another way to face n accept ur failure in a healthy style like some ppl turn to their religion for help or as a back-up or some of us will develop a new strong personal relationships to back themself up and realizing tat a person cant do everythg by himself/herself and lastly is face the whole situation and live through it but prove ourselves that we can survive the whole failure n to start all over again!
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We live from mistakes and same as failure. Of course we have to learn when we failed. But failing in a small issue and making yourself locked up in your own world is a very lame act to take and own. There are people who have failed from the top of the stairs and they still manage to climb back to the top without feeling like a shit ass (like wht you have said). Very interesting little mind here.
Hmm~okie..u r?
Don know who that is but definitely not FL Bong cos the London is too good. Lol!!
Hi again! It does not matter who am I. And for sure I am not FL Bong (who or what does tht means?) :)Anyway, you are a very young girl who owns a positive thinking there which delighted me when I came across your blog. Post more and maybe you can have a thought about being a journalist or you are already a journalist?
Hahahaha~ok ok! read more yaaa...if i have more to postt..:) and i m not a journalist. ehehe jz a biz student who have nth much to do but jz talk nonsense:P
Oh ya, anonymous! since u like to go across blogger's blog, u can go have a cross over 2 a fren of mine which is on my blog rings "Norman d pien tai". He is more keen on updating his blog and he have a very political mind thrr..:)) happy readin~
Haha! Free publicity from the Goat. Always a good thing, I guess.
For the looks of things, Anonymous must be a lot older than us, becos he/she said: "Anyway, you are a very young girl who owns a positive thinking......." and "Very interesting little mind here." Sounds like a person talking to a young kid, lol!
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