What we young generation think about marriage? Sucks, nightmare, a dreadful road of commitment or a some think they cant live with each other for jz a period of time when their chemical romance is boiling to d highest temperature then in another few mths they r actually bored of each other?
Changes thr r already changes in our generation. If u ask our parent's generation thr will think marriage is an exciting and blissful union of two love birds. For us, its a total upside down....coz we see too much example n oso we determine more than our parents n v r all getting more selfish as well. This is how marriage can turn into a disaster.
Walking down the aisle - "ooOo,How sweet n how eager those lovebirds to live with each other"- but times goes by when thr r conflict, thr r unacceptable thgs happen between them n bits by bits it turns out BIG PROBLEM then nowadays ppl will jz say "fine,lets file for a divorce since we r not suitable for each other". Its too ezy....unlike our parents how much conflict, how many arguments they still try their f**king best to maintain becos of their children n oso becos they believe when thr is love nothing can stop them...
Nowadays LOVE dont really conquer all, we r living in realistic world n wat else a materialistic world as well. Unlike those fairy tales r told anymore. Some will say, "No money no marriage", "Different lifestyle then break-up", Communication problem then cannot be together coz bei-ngam", U cant give wat i want then i got rights to choose for someone who can give me". So many issues to go tru especially if go tru wit a person who is totally diff in attitude o background. Wat a couple need - Tolerance, understanding? Do we think we can do it? Ya, some can n most cant n tat is why so many divorcee nowadays? Wat else today's world thr r so many "miss-cue" marriage happening? esp teens? Getting married at a young age especially those with accidents situation is gonna go tru a bumpy road oh n oso lots of sacrifices lying ahead of d road to be sacrifice. If one o both r not ready to give up their leisure or freedom sacrifices then choose not to be bond yet. Marriage is sth like "it takes two to tango" or its a 2 person commitment n sacrifices. Its not all about walking down the aisle with beautiful gowns n smart tuxedo or is not a one nite stand feel of affectionate or the feeling of getting a diamond ring how many carat it is instead of commitment of taking care more lifes coming into the family like children n both sides parent chip in our lifee....
But somehow we still can see thr r couples who have a blissful marriage...so its not tat scary though if some of us maintain n plan well enuff...n one have to give n one taking it...TOLERANCE~important guaa...:)
1 comment:
Very good entry, Miss Goat:-)
Yeah, the word commitment just doesn't carry the same weight that it used to, huh? Back in the old days, no matter how bad things are, most couples think that "at least we still have each other".
Nowadays, couples can break up over the smallest things, like material items, or minor differences in opinion, etc.
How ironic is that as our society "progress", marriages "digress"?
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