I have been thinking about ppl besides me with relationship n was thinking how to keep a man? Nah, I guess thr aint any actual manual book or rules to keep a man but I have thought of the 3 Deadly Mistakes We Gals make with Men without ever Realizing IT!
Mistake 1 - Leading a Man to think You are Needy and Insecure.
These signals men pick up on as "needy" and "unattractive".
1) Talking and saying nasty things about your ex-boyfriends.
We gals saying bad things about men will be involved with actually reflects negatively back to US. It makes the man we r dating presently worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.
2) Bad-mouthing about other women.
When girls call other girls names like "slut", "bitch" or "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted. Girls will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man will be attracted to her. This will just makes a man think you r trying to COVER UP your own INSECURITIES, and also looking for validation and attention which tis is not good k.
3)Too much of physical contact, esp in public
If you r persistently hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior but you'll never hear bout this from him so it's far better to save all those touches of yours for short n infrequent moments which will surprise and enchant him though.
Mistake 2 - Appealing To His Sexual side Instead of his Emotional side
Many of us girls/women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone and also think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well. So most girls often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship n get them wat they want but in reality a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional as 2 whole diff things and it needs a special set of skills to mold these 2 thgs 2gether in a man's mind n keep them connected.
So,ladies out thr try to fufill a man EMOTIONALLY n SEXUALLY r able to captures a man's heart n get back d same fulfillment for urself.
Mistake 3 - Dunno how to SIZE up a Man's relationship potential.
A lot of us gals most of d time decide whether or not they shud put more effort into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.
Yesh, attraction is very important but it can also be DANGEROUS! This is becos when we feel a strong sense of attraction 4 someone, it can actually cause us to override our logic n ignore our own instincts which lead us to overlook potential's partner deadly wrongs that could spell trouble down the road jz like tat...So if u found urself stuck in a relationship tat is dragging u down this is d probably d answer..
Therefore, its important to b able to size a guy up n spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship. Must be FAST! so you wont waste any of ur time n emotional energy on some1 who is not rite for u o who will leave u suffer n heartbroken.
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